Friends......becoming family among new generation

For some Gen-Yers, holidays back home are passe

It's becoming increasingly popular for young people to host Thanksgiving for their friends.

By Jenna Fisher | Contributor to The Christian Science Monitor

It had all the premeal buzz of a typical family Thanksgiving, except that the 20 or so guests were not related. The 20-somethings who gathered in Washington, D.C., last Saturday were friends, holding their third annual Thanksgiving together.

Increasingly, America's young adults appear to be spending traditional family holidays with friends rather than – or in addition to – their relatives. Chalk it up to the high cost of travel or the increasing time young people spend on their own between the end of college and marriage. For whatever reason, people in their 20s appear to be blurring the distinction between family bonding and friendship.

As more and more young people organize holiday rituals with their friends, it may lead them to redefine holidays as less family-based and defined more by friendship and community.

http://www.csmonitor.com/2007/1121/p01s03-usgn.html?page=1

Pretty piglet given another chance to live

photograph of a piglet nicknamed Andrex who is recovering after being found in the back of a lorry full of toilet paper at a supermarket.......

Stowaway piglet survives loo roll ordeal
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20071120/od_uk_nm/oukoe_uk_britain_piglet

President Lincoln creating the Thanksgiving holiday

The first religious day of thanksgiving at Plymouth may actually have been in 1623—and not in autumn, but in late summer—when the colonists offered up their thanks to God after a six-week drought. Occasional days of thanksgiving were declared throughout the colonial era and into the years of the early republic. But it wasn't until Abraham Lincoln called for late-November Thanksgivings in 1863 and 1864—and used explicitly religious language to do so—that the day became an annual, permanent fixture.

The first observance of the national holiday came one week after the dedication of the Soldiers National Cemetery at Gettysburg. The language of the proclamation by President Lincoln is beautiful and marked by a rare felicity of expression:  (excerpts)

The year that is drawing toward its close has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are of so extraordinary a nature that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften the heart which is habitually insensible to the everwatchful providence of almighty God.  [...]

No human counsel hath devised, nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the most high God, who while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy. [...]

It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently, and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and one voice by the whole American people. I do, therefore, invite my fellow-citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next as a day of thanksgiving and praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the heavens. And I recommend to them that, while offering up the ascriptions justly due to him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to his tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners, or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the almighty hand to heal the wounds of the nation, and to restore it, as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes, to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquillity, and union.  [...]

PRESIDENT LINCOLN'S THANKSGIVING DAY PROCLAMATION, OCTOBER 3, 1863.

Rethinking how to end hunger in the US

Th co-founders of Jivamukti Yoga, David and Sharon, always talk about yogis being "radical" - radical in the sense of getting to the root (which is the origin of the word radical) causes of issues. Not just blindly swallowing the prevailing notions of society but really analyzing the driving factors behind everything. For this Thanksgiving season, an important issue to consider is the ongoing food poverty in the US. The way we have been handling it for years has been through food banks.......but this provocative article below challenges that notion. Read it and decide for yourself!

When Handouts Keep Coming, the Food Line Never Ends

By Mark Winne

Sunday, November 18, 2007; Page B01

excerpts:
My experience of 25 years in food banking has led me to conclude that co-dependency within the system is multifaceted and frankly troubling. As a system that depends on donated goods, it must curry favor with the nation's food industry, which often regards food banks as a waste-management tool. As an operation that must sort through billions of pounds of damaged and partially salvageable food, it requires an army of volunteers who themselves are dependent on the carefully nurtured belief that they are "doing good" by "feeding the hungry."  C
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While none of this is inherently wrong, it does distract the public and policymakers from the task of harnessing the political will needed to end hunger in the United States. The risk is that the multibillion-dollar system of food banking has become such a pervasive force in the anti-hunger world, and so tied to its donors and its volunteers, that it cannot step back and ask if this is the best way to end hunger, food insecurity and their root cause, poverty. During my tenure in Hartford, I often wondered what would happen if the collective energy that went into soliciting and distributing food were put into ending hunger and poverty instead.

Mark Winne is the former director of Connecticut's Hartford Food System and the author of the forthcoming "Closing the Food Gap: Resetting the Table in the Land of Plenty."

Svaha

I finally did it - I got a tattoo. And I happened to find an amazing tattoo artist in DC to work on me..........totally random, no less. Although - nothing is really EVER random..........

I had the Sanskrit word "svaha" tattooed onto my forearm. Originating in ancient times, the word "Svaha" was originally said when making sacrifices into the sacred fire ("Agni"). Another interpretation is to think of "Svaha" as the personification of an "oblation" or sacrifice. In this way, Svaha is regarded as the female goddess, consort to the Fire God, Agni.

Over the years, and certainly in Jivamukti tradition (thanks to Manorama!), "Svaha" has come to mean making of oneself a sacrifice into the sacred fire, or for God. In other words, it means a total and complete self-offering to God.

My tattoo artist, Tony was awesome and the tattoo place (Jinx Proof) is featured all over in magazines and whatnot. If you feel inspired, go here for your tattoo!

  Jinx Proof was mentioned in the June 2007 issue of Alternative Press (#227) as a place to visit while in Washington D.C.

"Started in 1996 by Tim Corun and Karl Hedgepath, Jinx Proof is the place to get tattooed in D.C. It was the first tattoo shop to open in Georgetown, which proved to be a good idea. With an internationally recognized team of artists, you are sure to get exactly what you want, whether it's the Chinese symbol for t-shirt or a full backpiece of your favorite member of Fall Out Boy."

Quite the endorsement indeed.

Brad and Angelina buy island to showcase green issues

Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have bought a man-made island in the shape of Ethiopia that is part of an ambitious luxury development off the coast of Dubai, a newspaper reported Wednesday. The Hollywood couple intend to use the reclaimed piece of land to showcase environmental issues and encourage people to live a greener life, the Emirates Today newspaper said. The couple's purchase is part of cluster of 300 islands, shaped like a world map, that is gradually surfacing in waters off the booming Gulf emirate.

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Getting closer to ending the death penalty

During my one-year Americorps service, I worked at the National Coalition to Abolish the Death Penalty (NCADP). I continue to be haunted by how sadistic our death penalty protocol remains. Simply unacceptable...........especially for a country claiming to be the moral example for the rest of the world. And yet - it was sooo hard getting people to acknowledge this because simply nobody wants to know the big, bad, ugly truth. However, things are changing, and finally the issue is making headway.......

Die Hardest
Why the states are standing by their outdated, messy lethal-injection protocols.

It's unofficial: The country is in the throes of a de facto moratorium on the death penalty. In the wake of a Supreme Court decision in September to take a case testing the constitutionality of Kentucky's lethal-injection protocol, and after a series of stays granted by state courts and the Supreme Court, prosecutors in Texas and elsewhere announced they will stop seeking execution dates. This past October was the first month in three years in which nobody was executed in the United States.
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The prevalent three-drug protocol consists of an anesthetic rendering the victim unconscious, a paralytic that stops his breathing, and a drug that stops his heart. Mounting evidence suggests some prisoners may be suffering horribly. As Justice John Paul Stevens tartly pointed out at oral argument on a related question, the lethal-injection procedure we use "would be prohibited if applied to dogs and cats." (The American Veterinary Medical Association issued guidelines in 2002 saying the mix of drugs is unacceptable for putting animals to sleep.)
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If academics, doctors, and prisoners—as well as death-penalty supporters and the guy who invented the protocol—have been criticizing the three-drug protocol for years, why haven't the states switched methods? [...] The reason the states haven't acted is one part strategic and one part inertia. As the appellants' brief in Baze  points out, most of the states have persistently stood by their protocols with the argument that everyone else is doing it. Kentucky adopted Chapman's cocktail without "any independent or scientific studies" because "other states were doing it … on a regular basis."
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The reason our death-penalty methods are old and rickety is that they were cobbled together on the fly and broadly adopted without care. They are being defended for political and strategic reasons, as opposed to pragmatic ones. And the whole argument is a bad proxy for a larger fight about capital punishment. If carelessness, raw politics, and inertia should be driving policy, the current lethal-injection system is a penalogical grand slam. One shouldn't have to be opposed to the death penalty, be soft on criminals, or be a liberal crybaby to insist that procedures that are hopelessly outdated and medically suspect should be fixed.

Read full article here: http://www.slate.com/id/2176196/

Clean out those catalogs!

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"Some day, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness the energies of love. Then, for the second time, man will have discovered fire." -Pierre Teilhard de Chardin